Thursday, December 1, 2011

Mistakes

If all goes well I'm going to be presenting tomorrow on an article written by Scott Berkun "How to Identify and Learn from Your Mistakes." This may seem a bit off topic, but as we have studied happiness throughout the semester we have focused a lot on what society (thanks to Positive Thinking), individuals, and experts believe lead to a sense of happiness. I still cannot answer that first question posed on Day #1, "What do you believe happiness is? Is there a path to true happiness?" I believe it has a lot to do with being able to recognize our past failings, or mistakes rather, and to accept our past without dwelling in it daily.

Here is a link to the article, http://lifehacker.com/mistakes/. You might also want to check out the writer and public speaker's blog: http://www.scottberkun.com/essays/44-how-to-learn-from-your-mistakes/. He is a best-selling author, having written Mindfire: Big Ideas for Curious Minds, Confessions of a Public Speaker, The Myths of Innovation, Making Things Happen: Mastering Project Management.

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bdwoulfeDecember 1, 2011 at 11:42 AM
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bdwoulfeDecember 1, 2011 at 11:48 AM
I think that happiness is not something that can be continuously sustained, despite what the Buddhist may believe. It’s a feeling that can be found by taking many different paths and trick is noticing how you got there, and learning how to cultivate the feeling because it won’t last forever. It is like the air conditioning in Qatar from "Geography of Bliss". just as you must leave the comfort of the ostentatious man made bubbles of cool air in the middle of an unforgiving desert for a time and brave the back breaking heat , and the only strategy is make it back in as soon as possible once you have ventured outside....everyone's happy state will be broken by sadness, grief, stress, and uncertainty at times....the trick is finding your way back to that air conditioned state of mind as soon as possible, so as not to wander in the desert of unhappiness for any longer than absolutely necessary.
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Thursday, December 1, 2011

Mistakes

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