In our
readings of Bertrand Russell, I found his discussions on envy very
enlightening. Russell explains envy as "rendering a man unhappy."
This is beyond true in any case, and has been felt by nearly every person, at
some point in his or her lives. Instead of delighting in the things I had, I
was blinded by the things that were in another person's possession. Envy can
cause a person to wish misfortune on another and envy brings out a certain type
of unhappiness that seems contagious. He goes on to explain that even taking
something from someone when you are envious can lead you to a darker happiness,
just by making the other person unhappy. Envy seems to be a silently venomous
emotion or feeling that can disallow true happiness within oneself. Daily
thoughts can lead one to act envious, for example, just contemplating, as
Russell says, why one person leads a life of pleasure while another has to live
a life of hard work and turmoil can lend to this negative emotion. My favorite
quotation of his on this subject in his writing, The Conquest of Happiness, is as follows, "But leaving saints
out of account, the only cure for envy in the case of ordinary men and women is
happiness, and the difficulty is that envy is itself a terrible obstacle to
happiness,” (pg. 82). Human existence is such a peculiar thing, especially when
you really think and analyze this quotation, but at the same time, it makes
complete and clear sense. Happiness can be had without the presence of envy,
but envy can rear it's ugly head at any minute or hour of the day, even if so
slightly. Luckily, Russell explains that even though envy aids to
unhappiness and happiness cannot be had without the absence of envy, the
knowledge of one’s own envy is a large step in relieving envious tendencies
altogether. Some believe envy can be alleviated by acquiring that which you
didn’t have, but still someone will always have more for you to be envious of,
as Russell explains through the example of Napoleon’s jealousy of Julius Caesar,
who was most likely envious of Alexander the Great and so on, (pg. 84). The semi-full
proof method for attempting to subdue the snake that is envy is through
self-realization and mental training. Learning to truly appreciate your
possessions and your relationships eliminates this unhappy emotion. It’s, again,
this notion of self-realization of personal worth and understanding of fortune.
As with most all philosophy, it begins with and understanding in your mind and
logic.
What is it, how can we best pursue it, why should we? Supporting the study of these and related questions at Middle Tennessee State University and beyond. PHIL 3160 – Philosophy of Happiness - "Examining the concept of human happiness and its application in everyday living as discussed since antiquity by philosophers, psychologists, writers, spiritual leaders, and contributors to pop culture."
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Point taken. But I think there's also a non-toxic variety of envy that actually be a constructive force in one's life. The envy/admiration I feel for a writer more supple and clever than myself, for instance, can actually motivate me to work at becoming better myself. It need not make me bitter or resentful.
ReplyDeleteYou are very right. In that way it really is a driver for motivation.
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